Are you considering cruising with a toddler? Then you are in the right place! This post gives you all the tips, tricks and advice you need to have a successful and memorable cruise with a toddler!
When we first decided to go on a cruise, there was no question that we would be taking our kids.
I know a lot of people think of a cruise as a romantic getaway and it totally can be! However, the more we looked into it, the more perfect it seemed for a family vacation.
The cruise we went on last summer turned out to be one of our most fun and memorable trips yet, and its one our boys still talk about.
There are a lot of tips out there for cruising with kids, but in this post, I wanted to focus specifically on cruising with a toddler!
While we did do our cruise with Carnival and my experience in this post will definitely be geared toward that I have tried to share advice that can be applicable no matter what cruise line you go on!
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Well, if you read my introduction, you will probably know my answer to this.
I mean, if you are looking for a couples getaway, then perhaps it might not be the best time to take your toddler.
But if you are looking for a fun, family vacation having a toddler shouldnt hold you back.
We found that the staff on the cruise LOVED our kids and they loved interacting with them. Many of them have children that they dont see very often because of the demanding nature of a cruise employee lifestyle. So it was a nice reminder for them at home.
The most important thing is to do your research! Talk with your travel agent beforehand about the size of stateroom available, childcare (which Ill discuss below), if any staterooms have bathtubs, etc.
Make sure you book with Get Away Today they will be able to answer ALL of these questions (and more) for you.
Hopefully, by the end of this post, you will feel more excited and confident about taking your kiddo on a cruise!
While all cruise lines are adult-friendly, not all are kid-friendly.
And some are better suited for teenagers versus younger children (and vice versa).
Ive already talked about picking your perfect cruise itinerary, but its important to make sure a cruise line is going to be well-suited for your family before booking with it.
From what Ive read, these are the most kid-friendly cruise lines:
I often see Royal Caribbean having a Kids Sail Free promotion, which can make it even more affordable to cruise with them.
We had a great experience with Carnival Cruise lines and our toddler, so I highly recommend them.
Regardless, I would strongly recommend booking your cruise through Get Away Today. They made the process SO easy, and they are great at answering questions. They are always offering great deals and promotions for cruises, and they are all about family vacation planning. HIGHLY recommend.
Most cruise lines have some kind of childcare and above a certain age, its usually included with your fare.
However, the age limits may vary. The main reason we chose Carnival was that Oliver was two. Most cruise lines we checked had free childcare for three and up, but you had to pay extra for under three.
However, Carnival was free for two and up! For that reason alone, we were sold on the Carnival Cruise line.
Here is an overview of the childcare options for different cruises for children that are of toddler age (12-36 months).
Children 2 and up are invited to participate in Camp Ocean, which is included with their fare. For children 2-5, they are in the Penguins group, which was separate from the older kids on the ship we were on.
They also DONT need to be potty trained many cruise lines do require potty training to be left in the free childcare.
They have a bunch of age-appropriate activities, staff will serve your children meals, etc. They sometimes combine with the older kids, so if you have an older child, they will be able to do activities with them occasionally.
You are given a cell phone for the duration of your trip when you check in, which is their way of contacting you if they need you.
They give you a document when you check-in that shares all the times it is open, different activities, and meal times.
You can learn more about Camp Ocean here.
For children under 2, there isnt a nursery setup like some of the other cruise lines. However, there are specific times that children six months and up are welcome in Camp Ocean:
Disney Cruise Line
For children six months to three years, you can put your child in the nursery (on most Disney ships its called its a small world nursery).
Space is limited, so you will want to make your reservation as far in advance as you can.
This is NOT included with your fare. The prices are:
The staff is trained to feed and change your child, and you are welcome to bring diapers/wipes, clothing, blankets, and pacifiers.
For children 6-36 months, there is the Royal Babies and Royal Tots program.
There are soft play areas, sleeping areas, and toys appropriate for this age, and you can drop and pick up your child for the hourly rate of
Not all Royal Caribbean ships offer this, so make sure you book one that does!
There is also an open play area that parents can come with their children during the day to play. Its unsupervised, but it can be a nice place to come and play thats away from the hustle and bustle of the cruise ships.
Make sure you check out what kind of activities are available and what people generally think.
Honestly, we wish we had taken advantage of the Carnival kids clubs more. Our kids just went a few times, but they had so much fun.
There were lots of fun activities for the kids, and Im sure they would have enjoyed it more than some of the things we brought them to. Oliver LOVED the toddler center the staff was so fun.
Most cruises do you allow you to leave your child with the child clubs while you go off the ship, but theres a lot of debate online about whether or not you should actually do this. Definitely, do your research to decide what is best for your family!
One thing to keep in mind is that children who are not potty trainedare not allowed to be in any public pool or splash area.
There is no exception to this even if they are wearing a swim diaper. I saw some children who were clearly not potty trained splashing in the water you are not the exception! Dont do this!
This is kind of a bummer, but its for safety and sanitation reasons. So if you have a child who is going to throw a fit when they cant go into
Ive talked a lot about Carnival Cruise Food, and I did find it very family-friendly.
We felt like the Anytime Dining was the best option for our family so we didnt feel rushed, didnt have to interrupt naps, etc.
We were also sat by ourselves, so we didnt have to worry about our kids disrupting someone at our tables meal.
Im not sure if this is an option available on all cruises, so I would double check the dining options with your cruise line.
Here are a few general tips:
There are several quick service areas that are available on cruises, which can be a better option if you have a wiggly toddler that doesnt want to sit for an hour.
The buffet usually serves similar food to what is being offered in the dining room. Pizza and sandwiches are almost always available, and if you are looking for an easy morning order room service!
As I mentioned, with the Carnival Cruise Line, if your child is at Club Ocean during meals, they will eat with the other kids! So if you are looking for a romantic dinner with your spouse, this can be a good thing to do at some point.
Oliver usually slept in my bed anyways before we went on the cruise, so thats what he did on our cruise.
However, if your child usually sleeps in a crib, you can request one to be put into your stateroom before the cruise begins.
You can always bring along a pack-and-play, but thats just another piece of luggage you have to worry about!
Ahh, naps always seem to be hard to navigate when traveling.
Even if your toddler isnt taking naps anymore, I would try and plan on at least one. Oliver had quit taking naps a few months before our cruise, but he crashed midday almost every day on the cruise.
Making sure your toddler takes a nap can prevent some nasty meltdowns later on.
I would recommend either bringing a white noise machine or downloading white noise onto your phone. We were close to the engine, which was really loud and kind of scared Oliver. Having white noise drowned that out a little bit.
If you are in an interior room, they can get especially dark. So if your kiddo gets scared in the pitch dark, make sure you bring along a night light.
A 3-5 day cruise is probably going to be best for a family cruising with a small child.
We went on a 5-day cruise, and I think it was perfect. Oliver did really well, but I think he was pretty well exhausted by the time we left.
Longer cruises tend to be more geared toward older people/retirees as well, so a shorter cruise might be a little more kid-friendly.
Make sure to read this post to learn more about cruise itineraries.
On most cruises, you wont be charged a gratuity for children under two. I would double check this.
Even though they arent included, I think its nice to leave something especially at dinners if your toddler makes a big mess.
There are generally a couple of different types of rooms available on cruises:
And of course, there are suites, which will generally give you more space BUT are pricier.
I dont know that one kind of room is better than the other with a toddler a lot of that will depend on your child and family.
We had an interior room, primarily because it was the cheapest. However, it worked out well because it was pitch dark, which is how both of our kids sleep best.
If anyone in your party is prone to feeling claustrophobic, a room with some natural light would be ideal.
If your toddler takes a lot of naps and you dont want to feel trapped, a balcony room might be best so you can relax out there while your child sleeps.
I think I would have been too nervous with a balcony that my toddler would fall off. But Im just overly paranoid!
If you are on Carnival, I think one of the best things you can do is get Faster to Fun. This is something you purchase beforehand, and it was 100% worth it to us.
It basically lets you go in a special line at the beginning and end of your cruise. We passed by SO many people, and we hardly had to wait at all.
I was by myself with Oliver and Jack, and I think I would have gone postal had I been in the long line.
It was sold out the first time I looked after we booked our trip, but it was available again shortly before we left, so just keep checking.
I brought our stroller along, which Im grateful for as well. I think a light umbrella stroller is a must for anyone taking a toddler!
While cruises are generally safe, you cant just let your toddler run wild.
If they are not in child care, it is YOUR responsibility to always be watching them.
Make sure when you are outside, you are making sure they dont dart toward the guard rails.
While they cant just fall through, they definitely can crawl through if they try. I was so paranoid about this the entire time.
On our cruise ship (the Carnival Ecstacy), there was no glass or netting behind the guard rails, which kind of freaked me out!
If your child is going to be swimming, make sure you dont just let them run free.
Just use common sense. Keep an eye on your child at all times. Dont expect the cruise ship employees to notice if they are doing something unsafe or assume everyone on the ship is a good guy.
The best place for age-appropriate activities for your toddler will be in the childcare however, there is family fun to be had everywhere.
I highly recommend reading the schedule each day and picking out which activities sound like something your child might enjoy.
For instance, our cruise ship had LOTS of very toddler-friendly activities, such as a Dr. Seuss celebration and parade, a Dr. Seuss breakfast (that cost $5 per person), a family game night, etc.
We went to the cruise directors speech the first day, and our boys walked away with a coupon for a free Build-a-Bear at the Build-a-Bear workshop at a later day on the ship.
Not everything will be family friendly even the shows that claimed to be were a little loud and risque but there are a lot of great things you can do with your toddler. Just be aware of whats going on.
If you are flying in and going directly to your port, it might be easiest if you find a shuttle service that provides car seats.
That way, you dont have to tote around car seats for your child everywhere! If you fly in, we LOVE this CARES Safety harness for making flying a little safer for a toddler.
If you do bring along your car seat, just check it as some of your luggage. This will make your life a lot easier as you board.
Keep in mind that when you get to different destinations, there will likely NOT be car seats available if you have to get into a taxi, shuttle, or car for any reason.
If you know you will be walking a lot at a destination, you should consider bringing along a lightweight umbrella stroller, or if your child isnt too big, a carrier. I love the Ergo because it has a pretty high weight threshold.
While you can never 100% predict the weather, you can get a good idea about a week out from the cruise.
Make sure you have clothes appropriate for the weather for your child and be aware that children tend to overheat quickly.
Hats, sunglasses&those will be useful to have.
By knowing what type of weather to expect, you can have a better idea of how to realistically plan your trip with your toddler.
As with anything with toddlers, things rarely go as planned.
They get cranky. They get hungry at inconvenient times. They need naps.
Before you step foot on the cruise ship, just have realistic expectations! Try and stick to your childs current schedule as much as possible to prevent meltdowns.
You may not be able to do everything that you want to do, but if you are realistic about being flexible, it will be a great time.
I recommend scheduling an excursion when you have children especially if you are an in an unknown/less safe area.
We went to Nassau, which isnt necessarily unsafe, but it is hard to navigate if you dont know what you are doing.
I am SO glad we booked an excursion that was very toddler-friendly.
Most excursions (whether they are through the cruise or somewhere else), will tell you any age limits or recommendations.
I was a little sad because there were a couple of excursions that Jack could do, but Oliver couldnt&but in the end, we were able to find something that was very family friendly for everyone.
I generally recommend booking with the cruise just so you dont get left behind. However, I recently learned about Shore Trips, and I think they could help you get a very family-friendly excursion. If, by no fault of your own, your family gets left behind, they will pay to get you to your next port!
Ive talked a lot about what you should and shouldnt bring on a cruise in this post 22 Things I Wish Id Packed for My Cruise (and 11 Things Im Glad I Did).
This is a great starting point for any cruise packing list. However, here are a few things to consider bringing along specifically for your toddler:
In general, I do recommend overpacking when you are traveling with a toddler most of the time, anything you forget wont be available OR it will be extremely expensive.
No matter the age your child, I would strongly recommend having a passport.
While you arent required to have a passport if your port ends and begins in America, it just makes life easier if you have one especially if, for some unexpected reason, you get stuck in a foreign country.
If you choose not to bring a passport for them (or yourself), you will need proof of citizenship, such as a birth certificate.
I hope this has been helpful. Please dont hesitate to ask questions below if you have them.